Self-improvement can take time, so you may as well relax and enjoy the ride.
Original interview with Ed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgU
Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2arAXIw3MXg
Relax. You'll Eventually Get Laid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG4Pp2mgL7Q