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Ladies and gentlemen , a lot of my content falls into the category of me giving you permission or a little bit of a gentle nudge towards the things that you might want to do . And a lot of you guys especially have goals , you know , especially with dating and getting laid and sex and all that fun stuff that you really want , but you're sort of nervous to do it or you're a little bit worried that maybe you'll get rejected or maybe she won't want to do it and you're kind of worried about what might happen . And that especially comes up when it comes time to that moment when you're inviting her back to your place . You know , maybe you've been on a date , maybe a couple of dates , you've had a great time , she seems to be enjoying herself , you're really into her and you want to invite her back and move things forward towards sex , but you're sort of nervous to do it . You're nervous to fall around , you're nervous to take things towards the next step . I have covered this topic a hell of a lot , especially on my YouTube channel , and , by the way , if you're not following my content on YouTube , I highly recommend you go over there . It's Kill your Inner Loser on YouTube and I have a ton of content that's not on this podcast , so go check that out . But I talk a lot about how girls want you to ask them out . They want you to invite them back to your place . They want to have sex with you Otherwise they wouldn't be on a date with you and inviting them back even if they say no , like even if they say not tonight which , by the way , if they do say no , you just try again on the next date and then the date after that . So it's not like it's even a hard no , sometimes it will be , but most of the time when she's saying no , it's just not right now I'm a little bit nervous , I don't want to do it tonight , but she'll happily sleep with you on the next date or the date after that . But even if she says no , just inviting them back makes them feel validated , it makes her feel pretty , it makes her feel desired , she feels wanted , she feels nice . It's essentially a really nice compliment that you're giving her , you're letting her know or you're showing her that you liked her enough to want her to come back with you , that you want to take things further with her .

Speaker 1 2:16

Believe it or not , women have a lot of insecurities too , probably more than guys most of the time , and often you know , especially if you're a guy that doesn't have a lot of dating or sex experience and maybe you haven't had a whole lot of conversations with women where you ask them this question . But if you ask them , you know what are you unsure about , what are you insecure about ? They'll tell you all sorts of things . They'll tell you that they want to have , they want you to have a good time on the date . They want to make sure they're doing a good job for you . They want you to like them . They want to know that you find them attractive . They may be a little bit insecure and worried that they might make a fool of themselves or say something wrong . You know all of the insecurities that we as men have , women have , and again , I my personal experience has been most of the girls that I've dated are more insecure and have more doubts and fears and all of that . And so inviting her back you know a lot of the time as a guy you think , man , if I'm inviting her back , that's just me trying to get what I want . It's like , no , that's nice for her too . It's telling her hey , I think you're doing a good job on this date . Hey , I think you're interesting enough that I want you to come back with me . Hey , you're definitely attractive enough that I want to take things further with you .

Speaker 1 3:27

So the next time you're sort of sitting there a little bit nervous to invite her back or maybe you're at your apartment but you're nervous to take that next step Sort of put yourself in her mindset a little bit and think about maybe the some of the things that she might be insecure about you know , wanting to feel pretty , wanting you to like her , and all of that kind of stuff and frame it in your head as me inviting her back , even if she ultimately says no , this is me doing a nice thing for her , this is me giving her a compliment , this is me telling her or showing to her I think you're attractive . So just something to think about . The next time you're sort of sitting there in your own head which I know it's so easy to be in your own head , god knows , I've been there a million times . I still , to this day , get in my own head , not so much about dating and women and sex , but with other things , with coaching , with whether or not I'm doing a good job with these podcasts for you guys , whether or not I'm giving you enough value all sorts of things . Being in your own head is such a human thing , but one of the things that can pull you out of your head , you know , in this particular case is just thinking maybe this would be a nice thing for her . I can make her feel pretty by inviting her back and even if she says no , cool , I still showed her that I think she's pretty , I think she's cool , I'm having a fun time with her . One of the biggest female fantasies , or the biggest thing that turns women on , is to feel wanted . Pretty much every single woman on the planet will tell you that the thing that turns them on the most is knowing that a guy wants her , and so if you invite her back , you are literally giving that to her . You're saying I want you , I'm attracted to you , I think you're pretty , I think you're hot , I think you're interesting . So give girls that little blessing .

Speaker 1 5:06

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Speaker 1 5:23

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