Kill Your Inner Loser / Andy Wells

This Guy Found SOLUTIONS Instead of Obsessing About His Problems

August 18, 2023 Andy
Kill Your Inner Loser / Andy Wells
This Guy Found SOLUTIONS Instead of Obsessing About His Problems
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Have you ever felt fear or self-doubt sabotaging your path to success?

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Oh, my god, you guys. I had to just jump on here and talk about this guy who left a comment on my YouTube channel. I'm just going to read out his fucking comment Hello, andy, I've rediscovered your page and your channel after many years, after a very painful breakup for me. I want to thank you because by reading most of your posts on your page, I have headed in a new direction and found a lot of inspiration. I am from Peru, I speak Spanish and right now I am using a fucking translator with a robot voice to listen to you, but my goal is to learn fluent English within a year, take action and enroll in an English course. Thanks and regards. I will follow each of your posts to the letter. I hope we can meet one day. I fucking love this guy. So often in life, we give into our problems and we obsess about our problems and we say bullshit limiting excuses and bullshit limiting beliefs, and we say I can't get laid because I'm too short, I can't change my life because blah, blah, blah, I can't do this because I don't have money. This motherfucker doesn't even speak my language and yet he is looking for solutions. He has said okay, I don't even fucking speak English, but what if I get a translator with a shitty robot voice and I listen to this motherfucker called Andy and I'm in a different country and I could use that as an excuse. And I don't speak the language? And I could use that as an excuse? No, he has found a solution to his goddamn problems and he has thrown himself in there and just gotten started. How many of you listening right now have bullshit, limiting beliefs in your head that you know are bullshit? You know they are. Maybe it's I'm too short, maybe it's I'm Asian, I'm Indian, I'm too old, it's too late for me. I have responsibilities. Whatever bullshit is in your head, understand that. That is just fear talking. And what do we do when we feel fear? We run towards our fears. We do not let fear define us and we certainly do not let fear dictate our actions. This guy has not let his excuses limit him. He has found a solution. How many times in my life have I been hit or have I had one of these massive big hurdles or these limiting beliefs? And I just think there's no way I can do this. Hundreds of times, maybe a thousand times, and every single time, even though I feel hopeless, even though I feel like there's no way I can do this, even though every single thing in my head is telling me that this is impossible, I shut the fuck up and I do it anyway. I want you guys to take a page out of this guy's book. I want you to not make excuses. I want you to run towards the things that scare you. I want you to not give in. I want you to find solutions instead of obsessing about your goddamn problems, and this is something that you can train. I didn't start out immediately being able to look for solutions all the time. That's okay. It's a skill that you level up. You give yourself permission to suck at it at the start and you just slowly improve over time, but hunt for those solutions Every single time. You hear yourself hit with a limiting belief or an excuse or a reason why something can't be done. What I want you to do is get out a big piece of paper and write down 10 possible solutions to this thing. So, for instance, if you feel like I'm too short and I can't possibly get laid, write out 10 possible solutions. Okay, I could wear shoes that make me taller, I could gain muscles so that I have more of a presence and I'm bigger. Even though I'm not as tall, I will be bigger. Okay, I can just play the numbers game and go and talk to literally hundreds or thousands of women, so that it doesn't matter that I'm shorter. I will override that by running the numbers game and talking to a shitload of women. I will just hit on women that are shorter than me. I will develop my confidence, I will improve my sense of humor, I will dress better, I will groom myself, I will whiten my teeth, I will go out with a wingman, I will fucking move to a country where the women are shorter than me. Move to fucking Asia and you'll be the tallest person around, whatever it is. Come up with at least 10 possible solutions to your problem and then start taking tiny little baby steps to move towards it. You guys and girls know that we are big on action in this community. We are obsessed about taking action, and so write that list that is your first step of action of 10 possible things you can do to overcome this excuse or this problem, this bullshit that is holding you back from your true potential, from your true self, from your authentic self, and start taking tiny little baby steps. And if the baby steps scare you, like, if it terrifies you the thought of, like, changing your style and dressing a little bit better, okay, break that down into an even smaller baby step. And so maybe your first step is I will just Google male outfits or female outfits. I will just Google a couple of different style outfits that I could, you know, choose. I don't even have to buy them yet. That's too scary. I don't have to overhaul my wardrobe, I don't have to take my appearance seriously. All of that's too scary. Okay, I would just like Google and start thinking about this and I will slowly walk towards that thing. I had a discussion with my good friend, cam. You know, my assistant coach in my coaching program, cam. We had a good conversation this morning where he said you know, part of our philosophy and part of what we teach everybody is like you don't have to be good at things to get started. And I really want you guys and girls to embrace that mindset right now, instead of obsessing about problems and getting yourself all overwhelmed and saying you know, all of these things are against me, the deck of cards is stacked against me, there's no way I can possibly do this. No, get obsessed with bringing it down to really, really, really tiny, small baby steps that you can take right now. Another philosophy of mine is there is always something that you can do. In other words, instead of obsessing about you know, it's all hopeless, there's all this shit that's overwhelming me. I can't possibly do this. No, there is something, something, something that you can do right now, even if it's so unbelievably tiny and small. Start there. Rome wasn't built in a day. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take those fucking little baby steps every day and don't fucking quit. If you want more help with this right now, we have an amazing fucking deal in the coaching program. This is the time, if you've been thinking about coaching, to jump on board. If you sign up, you get 18 weeks instead of the usual 12. We will get you the life that you want, whether that's sex, dating, money, mindset, a beautiful, peaceful mind, whatever it might be, we will absolutely guarantee. Get you there if you're willing to put in the hard work. Link is in the description below. We would love to have you. We have payment plans. You can pay in full. Jump on board. Like I said, 18 weeks, but only if you pay in full in the next three weeks, limited time only. Fucking, sign up. Fucking, sign up. But, ladies and gentlemen, I want to see you guys living the life that you actually deserve and not making these bullshit excuses, not sitting there, going. I can't do it. I mean God. Here's another one that people make excuses on all the time the goddamn coaching program that I just mentioned. How many of you have told yourself? I mean, how many of you have told me? You literally tell me. I don't know why you're telling me, but you tell me you're bullshit limiting excuses. I literally get emails from people saying I really want to sign up for coaching, but now is not the right time. Bullshit, find a solution. Write down 10 reasons or 10 possible solutions as to why now is the right time. I mean now is the right time because I'm offering 18 weeks instead of 12. There you go. That's your fucking motivation. Or people will say I don't have the money right now. Bullshit, write down 10 solutions to that. Get the fucking money. I've said this a million times. I have taken out so many bank loans over my lifetime to facilitate the growth that I know will take me towards where I want to be and the person that I want to be. I haven't sat there and said I don't have fucking money, I guess I can't get laid. I don't have money, I guess I can't pay this coach. No, fuck that. I found a way to get the money. I've taken out a bank loan. I've put it on a credit card. I've borrowed money from my friends. I've borrowed money from my mother. Whatever I fucking need to do, I make that happen. So no more excuses. Ladies and gentlemen, be more like this guy. Find a way to make it work. This guy doesn't even fucking speak English and yet he is learning from me and from the rest of our community. Be more like him. Run towards that fear. Run towards those goals, because you deserve it, as always. Go out there and crush those goals.

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