I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
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I challenge you, my fearless listeners, to take immediate action and face your fears when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships. I know firsthand how easy it is to get trapped in the cycle of reading self-improvement advice without actually implementing any of it, and I don't want that for you. Listen closely as I share my personal challenge to go outside and talk to a woman, no matter how messy or clumsy the conversation may be. Remember, the action matters more than the outcome, and you deserve greatness in your life.
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All right , ladies and gentlemen particularly you , gentlemen let's launch straight into it . You guys know that I am big on taking action . I myself spent years and years and years just reading self-improvement advice and never actually implementing any of it . I was sort of just jerking myself off , feeling good , getting that beautiful little dopamine hit from reading self-help stuff , but I wasn't out there actually taking any action . And I don't want you , guys and girls but this podcast is particularly for guys I don't want you guys falling into the same trap If dating or sex or relationships are your current goal , or any goal in particular , really but we'll talk about those in this podcast . Let's get you taking action right now . What I want you to do and this is my personal challenge to you I want you to go outside right now , no matter what excuses you might have in your head , don't accept any bullshit from yourself . And I want you to walk up to a woman . I want you to just tell her that she's cute or that she's pretty , and I want you to talk to her for a minute . It doesn't have to be good conversation . In fact , it can be completely messy , it can be clumsy , it can be goofy , it can be stupid . That is great . But just ask her what she's up to today . You know what her weekend plans are . The conversation doesn't really matter , it really doesn't . But talk to her for a minute and then say something like you seem cool , we should grab a drink or a coffee . What's your number ? Again , don't worry about it being perfect , definitely don't worry about the outcome . It doesn't matter what she says . We only care if you actually took the action . Action matters more than outcome .
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But I want you to go outside and do it right now . I don't want you to be the guy that just listens to all of my content and never changes his life . You absolutely deserve greatness , but nobody's coming to save you . There is no white knight on a beautiful horse that's going to ride up and change your life and wave his little magic wand and give you the things that you want . There's a great saying if it is to be , it's up to me . You're going to have to be the one to take action . So I want you , i want you to actually do this . I want you to actually go outside and just say hi to a cute girl . If you struggle with it , that's completely okay . Just go out and fucking try , you will get massive respect from me and I want you to give yourself massive credit . If you at least just fucking try this and keep trying it every day until you get it , some of you will be able to go outside and just do it immediately Beautiful , great . I love that . Others of you might be a little more advanced and you can go outside and talk to five women Good , beautiful . Do that and keep that up . Be consistent . Don't just go out and talk to one or a couple of women today . Do that every single day . Give yourself a nice little challenge , like the challenge that I'm on right now .
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I did a YouTube video about this . I'm doing at least 100 minutes 100 days in a row . I'm also doing my 365 day project , where I do something every day , but I'm aiming for where I am doing 100 minutes of content , and really focused content every single day for 100 minutes . You could do the same thing here . You could go outside and talk to women or walk around trying to talk to women for 100 minutes , 100 days in a row . Think of how many fucking women you would be able to talk to . Think of how much greatness you would achieve if you just go out and do 100 minutes , 100 days in a row . It doesn't even matter if you can't talk to women for the first couple of weeks . Just try until you fucking get it .
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If you really , really really struggle with this like maybe you've never talked to any women give yourself permission to suck at this And , just like I said , go out there 100 minutes , 100 days in a row . Put yourself on the front lines until you get it . I promise you you will have a breakthrough moment where you can actually talk to a woman and you'll be awful at it . It will be cringe worthy , it'll be nervous , beautiful , great , that's the magic of fucking life . That's the reason most guys don't do this because , yeah , they're terrified of sucking . I want you to be different . I want you to go out there and actually do this thing . Just go and say hello to a cute girl . She deserves it And so do you .