Overcoming Excuses and Finding Solutions

Speaker 1 0:01

Oh , my god , you guys . I had to just jump on here and talk about this guy who left a comment on my YouTube channel . I'm just going to read out his fucking comment Hello , andy , I've rediscovered your page and your channel after many years , after a very painful breakup for me . I want to thank you because by reading most of your posts on your page , I have headed in a new direction and found a lot of inspiration . I am from Peru , I speak Spanish and right now I am using a fucking translator with a robot voice to listen to you , but my goal is to learn fluent English within a year , take action and enroll in an English course . Thanks and regards . I will follow each of your posts to the letter . I hope we can meet one day . I fucking love this guy .

Speaker 1 0:54

So often in life , we give into our problems and we obsess about our problems and we say bullshit limiting excuses and bullshit limiting beliefs , and we say I can't get laid because I'm too short , I can't change my life because blah , blah , blah , I can't do this because I don't have money . This motherfucker doesn't even speak my language and yet he is looking for solutions . He has said okay , I don't even fucking speak English , but what if I get a translator with a shitty robot voice and I listen to this motherfucker called Andy and I'm in a different country and I could use that as an excuse . And I don't speak the language ? And I could use that as an excuse ? No , he has found a solution to his goddamn problems and he has thrown himself in there and just gotten started . How many of you listening right now have bullshit , limiting beliefs in your head that you know are bullshit ? You know they are . Maybe it's I'm too short , maybe it's I'm Asian , I'm Indian , I'm too old , it's too late for me . I have responsibilities . Whatever bullshit is in your head , understand that . That is just fear talking . And what do we do when we feel fear ? We run towards our fears . We do not let fear define us and we certainly do not let fear dictate our actions . This guy has not let his excuses limit him . He has found a solution . How many times in my life have I been hit or have I had one of these massive big hurdles or these limiting beliefs ? And I just think there's no way I can do this . Hundreds of times , maybe a thousand times , and every single time , even though I feel hopeless , even though I feel like there's no way I can do this , even though every single thing in my head is telling me that this is impossible , I shut the fuck up and I do it anyway .

Speaker 1 2:57

I want you guys to take a page out of this guy's book . I want you to not make excuses . I want you to run towards the things that scare you . I want you to not give in . I want you to find solutions instead of obsessing about your goddamn problems , and this is something that you can train .

Speaker 1 3:19

I didn't start out immediately being able to look for solutions all the time . That's okay . It's a skill that you level up . You give yourself permission to suck at it at the start and you just slowly improve over time , but hunt for those solutions Every single time . You hear yourself hit with a limiting belief or an excuse or a reason why something can't be done .

Speaker 1 3:41

What I want you to do is get out a big piece of paper and write down 10 possible solutions to this thing . So , for instance , if you feel like I'm too short and I can't possibly get laid , write out 10 possible solutions . Okay , I could wear shoes that make me taller , I could gain muscles so that I have more of a presence and I'm bigger . Even though I'm not as tall , I will be bigger . Okay , I can just play the numbers game and go and talk to literally hundreds or thousands of women , so that it doesn't matter that I'm shorter . I will override that by running the numbers game and talking to a shitload of women . I will just hit on women that are shorter than me . I will develop my confidence , I will improve my sense of humor , I will dress better , I will groom myself , I will whiten my teeth , I will go out with a wingman , I will fucking move to a country where the women are shorter than me . Move to fucking Asia and you'll be the tallest person around , whatever it is .

Speaker 1 4:34

Come up with at least 10 possible solutions to your problem and then start taking tiny little baby steps to move towards it . You guys and girls know that we are big on action in this community . We are obsessed about taking action , and so write that list that is your first step of action of 10 possible things you can do to overcome this excuse or this problem , this bullshit that is holding you back from your true potential , from your true self , from your authentic self , and start taking tiny little baby steps . And if the baby steps scare you , like , if it terrifies you the thought of , like , changing your style and dressing a little bit better , okay , break that down into an even smaller baby step . And so maybe your first step is I will just Google male outfits or female outfits . I will just Google a couple of different style outfits that I could , you know , choose . I don't even have to buy them yet . That's too scary . I don't have to overhaul my wardrobe , I don't have to take my appearance seriously . All of that's too scary . Okay , I would just like Google and start thinking about this and I will slowly walk towards that thing .

Speaker 1 5:40

I had a discussion with my good friend , cam . You know , my assistant coach in my coaching program , cam . We had a good conversation this morning where he said you know , part of our philosophy and part of what we teach everybody is like you don't have to be good at things to get started . And I really want you guys and girls to embrace that mindset right now , instead of obsessing about problems and getting yourself all overwhelmed and saying you know , all of these things are against me , the deck of cards is stacked against me , there's no way I can possibly do this . No , get obsessed with bringing it down to really , really , really tiny , small baby steps that you can take right now . Another philosophy of mine is there is always something that you can do . In other words , instead of obsessing about you know , it's all hopeless , there's all this shit that's overwhelming me . I can't possibly do this . No , there is something , something , something that you can do right now , even if it's so unbelievably tiny and small . Start there . Rome wasn't built in a day . The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step . Take those fucking little baby steps every day and don't fucking quit .

Speaker 1 6:49

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Speaker 1 7:30

But , ladies and gentlemen , I want to see you guys living the life that you actually deserve and not making these bullshit excuses , not sitting there , going . I can't do it . I mean God . Here's another one that people make excuses on all the time the goddamn coaching program that I just mentioned . How many of you have told yourself ? I mean , how many of you have told me ? You literally tell me . I don't know why you're telling me , but you tell me you're bullshit limiting excuses . I literally get emails from people saying I really want to sign up for coaching , but now is not the right time . Bullshit , find a solution . Write down 10 reasons or 10 possible solutions as to why now is the right time . I mean now is the right time because I'm offering 18 weeks instead of 12 . There you go . That's your fucking motivation . Or people will say I don't have the money right now . Bullshit , write down 10 solutions to that . Get the fucking money . I've said this a million times

Finding Solutions and Overcoming Barriers

Speaker 1 8:20

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Speaker 1 8:20

I have taken out so many bank loans over my lifetime to facilitate the growth that I know will take me towards where I want to be and the person that I want to be . I haven't sat there and said I don't have fucking money , I guess I can't get laid . I don't have money , I guess I can't pay this coach . No , fuck that . I found a way to get the money . I've taken out a bank loan . I've put it on a credit card . I've borrowed money from my friends . I've borrowed money from my mother . Whatever I fucking need to do , I make that happen . So no more excuses . Ladies and gentlemen , be more like this guy . Find a way to make it work . This guy doesn't even fucking speak English and yet he is learning from me and from the rest of our community . Be more like him . Run towards that fear . Run towards those goals , because you deserve it , as always . Go out there and crush those goals .