
Andy Wells
I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
Andy Wells
Day 13: Overcoming Porn Addiction & Not Using Women
Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself - and her too.
Shownotes:
NoFap.com:
https://nofap.com/
You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:
https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury
My How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person):
https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/
The Takeaway:
- Don't just focus on "I will stop watching porn". Make sure you also have something to work towards - something to replace the porn with.
- Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn't porn.
- I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me.
- Don't use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together.
- During sex, you can frame things as "I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild" - rather than "I'm using her to fulfill my porn fantasy".
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