Andy Wells
I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
Andy Wells
Day 157: Does "Building Comfort" Matter? (Patreon Question)
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Do you need to "build comfort" with girls before having sex with them? (Hint: no, but not for the reason you think).
Ed's question was:
Why is “building comfort” considered such an important part of mainstream PUA philosophy, but it’s hardly discussed at all within KYILor GLL
According to mainstream advice, women need to have spent time and connect emotionally with a man before they are willing to have sex with him. Is there something missing from this view of sex and female attraction? If building comfort is important, why do women have casual sex when they “barely know” a guy?
Hint -- I think I know part of the answer: lust and physical attractiveness is driving the attraction in these casual sex relationships. Excitement, risk, and “moving fast” is an attraction in itself. No one questions a roller coaster ride by asking “aren’t you afraid?” The response is simply “duh, it’s supposed to be a little scary and exciting, that’s why it’s fun!”
SHOWNOTES:
My Patreon:
https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser
Attraction vs Lust:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/108/
Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/
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