Andy Wells
I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
Episodes
884 episodes
Day 210: Distil People Down into 1 Sentence
...in order to assess whether they're adding to your life, or taking away from it.Watch this episode on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGN...
Day 209: Fantasise About Your Goals (to Make You Believe They're Possible)
How to trick your brain into BELIEVING your goals are achievable.Watch this as a video on my youtube channel: https://youtu.be/KdsUICC0YXESHOWNOTES:Message me for coaching...
Day 208: Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM
Why asking girls for dating advice is a lose-lose for both of you. SHOWNOTES:No more Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nic...
Day 207: 5 Struggles My Coaching Clients Have
5 of the biggest struggles my clients - and guys on my forums - have with dating/getting laid.Watch this on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGN...
Day 206: What the School System Could Be
Andy and Imogen talk about the complete and utter failures of the modern education system, and how it could be ten billion times less dogshit.
Day 205: What Questions Would I Ask Chris from GoodLookingLoser?
If I could go back in time, what questions would I have asked my mentor Chris when I was at my newbie stage?Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Wm0Aekswqpg SHOWNOTES...
Day 204: How to Avoid Sexual Incompatibility
How do you screen for sexual compatibility, and what do you do if the chemistry just isn't there?
Day 203: How to Meditate & Relax (The 5-Minute Meditator Review)
Some techniques on relaxation and meditation from the awesome book, The 5-Minute Meditator.SHOWNOTES:Buy The 5-Minute Meditator Here: http...
Day 202: How to Kiss a Shy or Virgin Girl
Andy and Imogen discuss how to kiss girls who are super shy or turn you down for a kiss.
Day 201: Sigma and Andy Talk Money
A kickass chat with Sigma about making money and becoming a digital nomad, whether to prioritise your sex life or making money, how you can help others and how to leave girls better than you found them.SHOWNOTES:Previous ...
Day 200: How to See Multiple Girls at the Same Time
Whether to be honest about seeing multiple girls, how to handle the logistics, how often you should see them, and more.SHOWNOTES:Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards:
Day 199: Are You Trying to Have Sex, or Trying to get Validation?
Validation should never be your ONLY focus, and here's why.SHOWNOTES:Getting Laid for Ego Validation is Perfectly Ok: https://killyourinnerloser.com/getting-l...
Day 198: Everything in Life is a Numbers Game
The numbers game applies to making friends, getting a job, making content, overcoming mental hurdles, and so much more.SHOWNOTES:Read the full article: https...
Day 197: Other People Have a Different Rulebook to You (Empathy)
Why people aren't always going to do what you want them to do... and how to deal with the frustration that comes from that.SHOWNOTES:Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards Who Don't Actually Want to Get Laid:
Day 196: Sexual Homework Tasks to Give Girls
Some fun, kinky ideas to give to girls you're seeing.SHOWNOTES:BDSM Test: https://bdsmtest.org/select-modeThe Winner's Club (my private accountability + coaching group)...
Day 195: Analysis Paralysis
Why sitting around reading/planning is not going to get you the life you want to live.SHOWNOTES:Take MASSIVE Action: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/Run TOWARDS Fe...
Day 194: Ramblings from 2 Psychos in a Park
Andy and Imogen talk about Andy's future goals, money, the direction of his website, why politics are gay and how to have that "Fuck it, I'm going all-in" moment.SHOWNOTES:Want ongoing accountability and daily coaching fr...
Day 193: David (GravyTrain) on Tattoos, Money and PMW
The legendary David (GravyTrain) is back for a second interview! Good times.Watch this as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q_p7-H0jgZkSHOWNOTES:David's Instagram:
Day 192: You Should Create Something
Why you don't need to be an "expert" in order to start a blog/YouTube channel/podcast/artwork/etc.
Day 191: Imogen Hates Girls, Radical is a Thief & Andy Has Clickbait Titles Now?
And even his fucking description is vague and non-descript? He's jumped the fucking shark.SHOWNOTES:Watch this on my YouTube channel: https://ww...
Day 190: Radical Ideas: Do 1 Goal at a Time
Why doing multiple big goals at once is a recipe for disaster.SHOWNOTES:YouTube version of this episode: https://youtu.be/SHaHO6mRm_oRadical's video on 1 goal at a time:
Day 189: Does Andy Disagree with BlackDragon Blog? [Part 2]
The answer is yes, and also no. How deliberately vague... ;) (Part 2)SHOWNOTES:Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7511719Black Dragon...
Day 188: Does Andy Disagree with BlackDragon Blog? [Part 1]
The answer is yes, and also no. How deliberately vague... ;)SHOWNOTES:Black Dragon Blog: https://calebjones.com/blogThis is All Just a Big Experiment:
Day 187: How to Be Vulnerable Whilst Still Being Masculine (plus We Went on the AskWomen Podcast!)
Imogen and I talk about a recent podcast interview we did, what it was like being guests instead of hosts (it's weird), and how you can be open and honest with women, without being a giant pussy.Listen to the AskWomen episode we were on...